Lecture (Level 2) – How to buy happiness

by Michael Norton
a social science researcher and associate professor at the Harvard Business School.  His research was featured in the New York Times Magazine Year in Ideas issues of 2007 and 2009.

 

First preview the vocabulary below.  Then do the exercise by first reading a single question and then listening for the answer.  When you hear the answer, pause the video and answer the question.  Then read the next question and do the same thing.  If you get the answer wrong, then go back to where the answer is given and listen again.

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experiment:  a test to see if something is true
ruined:  broken and not repairable
debt:   owing money
bug:  ask repeatedly
fantasizing:  creating a story in your head
extort:  get money to not share a secret
antisocial:  not liking to be with other people
prosocial:  doing things for other people
affluent:  having lots of everything
correlated:  related
charity:  organizations that help people
dominate:  have the most wins
league:  a group of teams that play together
benefit:  do good things for

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Present perfect continuous tense


The present perfect continuous is used for an action that started in the past and continues to the present.  In other words, the action is still ongoing.  The present perfect can also be used, but can sometimes be confusing because it is also used in 2 other situations.  Therefore, it’s a good idea if you have a choice between the present perfect and the present perfect continuous that you choose the present perfect continuous.

This tense is formed with 3 verbs: the auxiliary have or has, the past participle been, and the present participle (verb + ing)

The words for and since are often used with this tense

Examples:
They have been living in that house for twenty years. (and they still do (ongoing))
She’s been taking piano lessons since she was five years old.  (and she still does (ongoing))

Watch out for the word for, and use the simple past if the action is finished.

Examples:
She lived in California for ten years.  (She doesn’t live there anymore (not ongoing))
I babysat the neighbor’s daughter for two weeks last summer.  (This happened last summer (not ongoing))

Also, use the present perfect continuous with all day, all week, and any other time periods that are not yet finished. If the time period is finished, however, then use the simple past.

Examples:
We’ve been waiting all day to hear the results.  (It’s still the same day.)
We waited all day to hear the results.  (It’s now the following day.)
I have been trying to call her all week, but she isn’t answering her phone.  (It’s still that same week.)
I tried to call her all last week, but she didn’t answer her phone.  (It’s now the following week.)
Have you been sleeping all morning?  (It’s still morning.)
Did you sleep all morning?  (It’s now the afternoon.)

Also, use the present perfect continuous with the question how long.

Examples:
How long have you been playing the piano?
How long has she been modeling?

When you use these verbs, do not use the present perfect continuous but use the present perfect only:

be                believe           belong          exist             forget            hate

have*          hear                know             like                love             need

own            possess           prefer           remember     see           understand        want

* when “have” means “possess,” not when “have” means “experience.”

If you have these words: so far, to date, and up to now, use only the present perfect even though the verbs seem ongoing.

Examples:
So far we’ve made $160 washing cars.  (and we’re still washing cars (ongoing))
To date I’ve seen six of his films.  (and I will continue to watch more (ongoing))
The dogs have been very quiet up to now.  (and they are still quiet (ongoing))

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Welcome to My Morning

by John Denver

an American singer and songwriter who became one of the most popular artist of the 1970s.  He was a humanitarian and environmentalist who loved nature and the outdoors.  This is the title song from his 7th album entitled “Farewell Andromeda” released in 1973.

Welcome to my morning, welcome to my day.
I’m the one responsible, I made it just this way.
To make myself some pictures, see what they might bring.
I think I made it perfectly, I wouldn’t change a thing.

La la la, la la la la la la. La la la, la la la la la la.

Welcome to my happiness, you know it makes me smile.
It pleases me to have you here for just a little while.
While we open up the spaces and try to break some chains.
And if the truth is told they will never come again.

La la la, la la la la la la. La la la, la la la la la la.

Welcome to my evening, the closing of the day,
I could try a million times and never find a better way
to tell you that I love you and all the songs I play
are to thank you for allowing me inside this lovely day.

Welcome to my morning, welcome to my day.
I’m the one responsible, I made it just this way.
To make myself some pictures, see what they might bring.
I think I made it perfectly, I wouldn’t change a thing.

La la la, la la la la la la. La la la, la la la la la la.
La la la, la la la la la la. La la la, la la la la la la.

Vocabulary:

responsible:  the cause of something happening
perfectly:  with no mistakes
pleases me:  makes me happy
while:  time
chains:  things that keep you from freedom
allowing:  letting
lovely:  beautiful

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Reported speech – basic

If you want your writing and especially your speaking to get better, learn how to use reported speech.  It raises your level of English a lot, and you’ll know this grammar probably better than most English speakers.  Reported speech, or indirect speech, is used when you are reporting (telling someone) what someone else said.  This is different than direct speech where you use quotation marks.  Let’s look at the difference:

Examples:
She said, “ Im bored and Im going to my friend’s house.”  (Direct speech)
She said that she was bored and that she was going to her friend’s house.  (Indirect speech)

The difference in these two examples is that in direct speech the words inside the quotation marks (“  ”) are the same words that came out of the person’s mouth.  They are exactly her words.  In reported speech, you say what the person said in your words.  Therefore, some of the words are different, but the meaning is the same.

Some of the words are different because these words were probably said in the past and in a different place.  Therefore, the words that change are pronouns, possessive adjectives, and verb tenses.  Notice in the examples above that “I” changes to “she” andm (am) changes to “was.”  This is because the reporter of the speech is not the person who originally said the words.  Therefore, I, who is the person speaking, changes to she, who is the person reported on.  In the same way, the original speaker talked in the present tense (am), but when the reporter reports the speech, he or she is usually doing it later, so the verb tense cannot be present.  It must be past (was).  My, which belongs to the person talking, changes to her from my point of view.

In reported statements, that can be dropped anytime before a subject and verb, so I will put it in parentheses – (that).  When you see this word in the examples that follow, remember that you can drop it if you want to.

 

There are several reporting verbs that you can use.  The 2 most common are said and told.

Use said for the reporting verb if you don’t have a person or people after it:

Examples:
He said (that) he arrived before noon.
They said (that) they had a good time at our party.
(Sometimes people say:  They said to us (that) they had a good time at our party, but this is far less common.)

Use told if you have a person or people after it.  This person or people can be a pronoun (me, you, him, her, us, them) or a noun (our parents, the police, etc.):

Examples:
We told our parents (that) we were coming straight home.
They told us (that) they needed more time to prepare.

 

Here are some more examples of statements in reported speech:

She said, “I study hard because I want to pass.”  (quoted speech)
She said (that) she studied hard because she wanted to pass.  (reported speech)

He told her, “I’m bored, so I want to do something interesting.”  (quoted speech)
He told her (that) he was bored, so he wanted to do something interesting.  (reported speech)

 

If the time hasn’t changed when you report the speech, then you don’t have to change the present tense to the past, but you can if you want to, and there’s no difference in meaning.

Examples:
He said, “I usually eat a quick breakfast and then get a cup of coffee on my way to work.”  (quoted speech)
He said (that) he usually eats a quick breakfast and then gets a cup of coffee on his way to work.  (reported speech)
He said (that) he usually ate a quick breakfast and then got a cup of coffee on his way to work.  (reported speech)

She said, “I often listen to music when I study.”  (quoted speech)
She said (that) she often listens to music when she studies.  (reported speech)
She said (that) she often listened to music when she studied.  (reported speech)

He said, “It rains when there are cumulus clouds in the sky.”  (quoted speech)
He said (that) it rains when there are cumulus clouds in the sky.  (reported speech)
He said (that) it rained when there were cumulus clouds in the sky.  (reported speech)

 

These verb tenses change in reported speech:

present simple –>  past simple

Example:
He said, “I like to eat watermelon in the summertime.”  (quoted speech)
He said (that) he liked to eat watermelon in the summertime.  (reported speech)

present continuous –>  past continuous

Example:
They said, “We are putting together a basketball team.”  (quoted speech)
They said (that) they were putting together a basketball team.  (reported speech)

These modals change:

can –> could

Example:
She said, “I can help you after work.”  (quoted speech)
She said (that) she could help them after work.  (reported speech)

will –> would

Example:
He said, “Ill meet you at the library.”  (quoted speech)
He said (that) he would meet me at the library.  (reported speech)

may –> might

Example:
I said, “You may want to bring a coat with you.”  (quoted speech)
I said (that) you might want to bring a coat with you.  (reported speech)

have to –> had to

Example:
They said, “We have to finish the project before Friday.”  (quoted speech)
They said (that) they had to finish the project before Friday.  (reported speech)

must –> had to

Example:
We said, “We must win this game for the coach.”  (quoted speech)
We said (thatwe had to win the game for the coach.  (reported speech)

 

These modals don’t change:

could

Example:
She told us, “I could remember everyone’s name.”  (quoted speech)
She told us (that) she could remember everyone’s name.  (reported speech)

would

Example:
I told him, “You would sleep better with the lights off.”  (quoted speech)
I told him (that) he would sleep better with the lights off.  (reported speech)

should

Example:
The coach told the team, “Everyone should get a good night’s sleep.”  (quoted speech)
The coach told the team (that) everyone should get a good night’s sleep.  (reported speech)

 

The easiest kind of reported speech is when someone gives a command.   To report a command, use told and change the verb to the infinitive (with to).

Examples:
Their mother said to them, “Do your homework before dinner.”  (quoted speech)
Their mother told them to do their homework before dinner.  (reported speech)

He told his brother, “Wait for me after school.”  (quoted speech)
He told his brother to wait for him after school.  (reported speech)

 

If the command is negative, then put not before the infinitive.

Examples:
She said, “Don’t forget to lock the door.”  (quoted speech)
She told me not to forget to lock the door.  (reported speech)

Her mother said, “Don’t wear your good shoes to school.”  (quoted speech)
Her mother told her not to wear her good shoes to school.  (reported speech)

 

You can also use an infinitive when you report a request, which uses can, could, will or would.  Use the reporting verb asked.

Examples:
My friend said to me, ”Could you please help me get started?”  (quoted speech)
My friend asked me to help him get started.  (reported speech)

Susan said, “Will you open the salsa jar for me?”  (quoted speech)
Susan asked me to open the salsa jar for her.  (reported speech)

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Shine

by Anna Nalick

an American singer/songwriter born and raised in California.   This is the title song from her second album, which was released March 25, 2008.


Oh, the night makes you a star
And it holds you cold in its arms
You’re the one to whom nobody verses “I love you”
Unless you say it first
So you lie there, holding your breath
And it’s strange how soon you forget
That you’re like stars, they only show up when it’s dark
‘Cause they don’t know their worth

And I think you need to stop following misery‘s lead
Shine away, shine away, shine away

Isn’t it time you got over
How fragile you are
We’re all waiting, waiting on your supernova
‘Cause that’s who you are
And you’ve only begun to shine

There are times
When the poets and porn stars align
And you won’t know who to believe in
Well, that’s a good time to be leaving
And the past, he knocks on your door
And throws stones at your window at four in the morning
Well, maybe he thinks it’s romantic
He’s crazy, but you knew that before

And I think you need to stop following misery‘s lead
Shine away, shine away, shine away

Isn’t it time you got over
How fragile you are
We’re all waiting, waiting on your supernova
‘Cause that’s who you are
And you’ve only begun to shine
Yeah, you’ve only begun to shine

Won’t you shine, shine, shine
Shine over shadow, oh, oh
Shine, shine, shine
Shine over shadow, oh, oh
Shine, shine, shine, shine over

I think you need to stop following misery‘s lead
Shine away, shine away, shine away

Isn’t it time you got over
How fragile you are
We’re all waiting, waiting on your supernova
‘Cause that’s who you are
And you’ve only begun to shine
Yeah, you’ve only begun to shine
Yeah, you’ve only begun to shine

Vocabulary:

verses:  writes in a poem
strange:  odd, unusual
’cause:  because
worth:  importance, value
misery:  condition of pain or suffering
got over:  recovered from
fragile:  easily broken
supernova:  exploding star
poets:  the best people
porn stars:  the worst people
align:  come together
romantic:  a loving thing to do

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Level 2 verbs – Unit 10

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apologize:  to say you’re sorry
He apologized for not remembering her birthday.
I want you to apologize to your mother for making this mess.

brag:  to say out loud something you’re proud of.
He bragged that he had never lost a fight.
I don’t want to brag, but I did win the tournament last year.

contact:  to communicate with
You need to contact your doctor immediately if your symptoms continue.
You can usually contact him by cellphone.

crush:  to make flat or into small pieces.
He crushed his cigarette with the sole of his shoe.
The recipe says to crush the garlic before adding.

discuss: to talk about (something)
We’ll discuss this after dinner and not before.
What did they discuss at the meeting last Friday?

force:  to make (someone) do (something)
He forced the man to tell him the truth.
I don’t want to force you to do anything.  It should be your choice.

influence:  to change (someone else’s) mind
My good friend influenced my decision.
He won’t let his religion influence the way he votes.

object:  to say something is wrong
If nobody objects, we’ll end the meeting now.
I object to your calling me a liar.

rely:  to depend, to believe someone will help you
She relies on her parents paying her tuition.
Can I rely on you to keep a secret?

reproduce:  to make another one of the same thing, to have babies
The artist reproduced the famous painting to hang in his own home.
Rabbits reproduce very quickly.

rinse:  to run water over the surface to make clean
I had to rinse my hair a second time to get all the shampoo out.
Please rinse the dishes before you put them in the dishwasher.

satisfy:  to make (someone) feel like something was worthwhile.
A good cup of coffee in the morning really satisfies me.
He looked up the answer to satisfy his curiosity.

squeak:  to make a series of short high sounds
The door to the bedroom squeaks, so I have to oil it.
I bought a new pair of shoes and they squeak with every step.

suppose:  to think something is true
I suppose you’re going to be late again tonight.
Do you suppose it’s going to rain tomorrow?

wobble:  to move from one position to another repeatedly
The little boy pulled an old wagon, which wobbled behind him.
That olld table has always wobbled.

Pronunciation Exercise: Listen and repeat the above vocabulary on the audio file below.

Use these flashcards to help you study.

 

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Level 3 idioms – Unit 10

Conversation:

Nick:  You look like you’re walking on air.  What’s up?

Sergey:  Remember Sarah?  We met her at the New Year’s Eve party last year?

Nick:  No. Her name doesn’t ring a bell.  What does she look like?

Sergey:  Tall, long dark hair, beautiful blue eyes.

Nick:  I’m still drawing a blank, but what about her?

Sergey:  Well, this morning we met by chance in the coffee shop and we both hit it off right away.  Now, I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but she could be the one for me.  There’s only one small problem.  I can’t lay my hands on her phone number.  She wrote it on a napkin, and now I can’t find it!  I’m on pins and needles.

Nick:  I can imagine.  You know if you don’t call her up within a few days, you’re going to be in hot water.  She’s going to think you don’t like her.

Sergey:  I know.  I know.  What am I going to do?

Nick:  Get a grip!  It won’t help to get upset.  If I were you, I’d go back to the coffee shop tomorrow and try to find her.

Sergey:  Hang on.  It just dawned on me that I changed by jeans when I got home.  I’ll bet her number is in one of the pockets.  I’ll go look.

Nick:  For your sake, I hope it is.  But if it’s not, it serves you right for being so careless.

Sergey:  Here’s her phone number!  It was in my jeans pocket all along.

Vocabulary:

by chance:  accidentally
the one:  the perfect person
hang on:  wait
sake:  benefit, well-being

Idioms:

walk on air                                         feel very happy
ring a bell                                           be something one remembers
draw a blank                                      not be able to remember
hit it off                                              become friendly immediately
jump to conclusions                         form an opinion without all the evidence
lay one’s hands on (something)     be able to find (something)
on pins and needles                          anxious, nervous
in hot water                                        in trouble
get a grip                                            make oneself calm
dawn on (someone)                          (someone) realizes
it serves (someone) right                 (someone) gets the punishment he/she deserves
all along                                              for the whole time

Notes:

ring a bell and draw a blank are opposites.

on pins and needles and on edge have the same meaning.

 

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Lecture (Level 2) – All it takes is 10 mindful minutes

by Andy Puddicombe

a former Buddhist monk with a degree in Circus Arts.  He is the founder of Headspace, an award-winning digital health platform that provides guided meditation sessions for its users.  As both author and public speaker, Puddicombe is known for his simple, accessible and secular approach, which has led to over 1 million users of the Headspace platform.

First preview the vocabulary below.  Then do the exercise by first reading a single question and then listening for the answer.  When you hear the answer, pause the video and answer the question.  Then read the next question and do the same thing.  If you get the answer wrong, then go back to where the answer is given and listen again.

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frantic:  too busy
reminiscing:  remembering
precious:  of high value
distracted:  having your attention go to something else
assumes:  thinks he has the right answer without all the evidence
meditation:  a practice of letting your mind be calm
whole deal:  everything
succession:  things happening one after the other
inundated:  flooded, having too many or too much
monk:  a person who devotes his life to understanding God
tragic:  resulting in something very bad
technique:  a way of doing something
impacts:  affects, changes
anxious:  worried
wobbly:  moving a little back and forth
restless:   not being able to relax
agitated:  disturbed, made uncomfortable
perspective:  the way you look at something
potential:  possibility

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Reported speech – advanced

Reported speech can be more complicated than I showed you on the Reported speech – basic page.  For example, there are more words that change besides pronouns, possessive adjectives, and verb tenses.    Place words and time words also change. 

To review, the first kind of reported speech is with statements.   All the examples below are statements.  Later we’ll look at imperatives, questions and other types of sentences.

In a statement that can be dropped anytime before a subject and verb, so I will put it in parentheses – (that).  When you see this word in the examples that follow, remember that you can drop it if you want to.

It’s important to know which words you have to change in reported speech.

These verb tenses change:

present simple –>  past simple

Example:
He said, “I like to eat watermelon in the summertime.”
He said (that) he liked to eat watermelon in the summertime..

present continuous –>  past continuous

Example:
They said, “We are putting together a basketball team.”
They said (that) they were putting together a basketball team.

past simple –>  past perfect

Example:
He told them, “I went to our usual pub, but none of you were there.”
He told them (that) he had gone to their usual pub, but (that) none of them had been there.

present perfect –>  past perfect

Example:
He said, “My family have lived in this area for generations.”
He said (that) his family had lived in that area for generations.

present perfect continuous –>  past perfect continuous

Example:
They said, “We’ve been practicing for hours.”
They said (that) they’d been practicing for hours.

Past continuous –> past perfect continuous

Example:
She said, “I was working in the garden all afternoon.”
She said (that) she had been working in the garden all afternoon.

 

However, these verb tenses don’t change:

past perfect –>  past perfect

Example:
I said to her, “I had forgotten to lock the door.”
I told her (that) I had forgotten to lock the door.

past perfect continuous –>  past perfect continuous

Example:
She said, “I had been wondering about that for a long time.”
She said (that) she had been wondering about that for a long time.

 

The following modals change:

will –>  would

Example:
He told me, “I’ll be there at 11:00 at the very latest.”
He told me (that) he would be here at 11:00 at the very latest.

can –>  could

Example:
She said, “I can be at the meeting tomorrow morning.”
She said (that) she could be at the meeting tomorrow morning.

may –>  might

Example:
She said, “I may be late, but I’ll be there.”
She said (that) she might be late, but (that) she’d be there.

have to  –> had to

Example:
He told her, “I have to go to New York on business.”
He told her (that) he had to go to New York on business.

must –> had to

Example:
She said, “I must see the dentist sometime this month.”
She said (that) she had to see the dentist sometime this month.

 

However, these modals don’t change:

might –>  might

Example:
He told them, “There’s one thing I might do for you.”
He told them (that) there was one thing he might do for them.

could –>  could

Example:
He said, “I couldn’t come yesterday because I lost my car keys.”
He said (that) he couldn’t come yesterday because he had lost his car keys.

would –>  would

Example:
I told them, “I would visit more often if I could.”
I told them (that) I would visit more often if I could.

should –>  should

Example:
She said to him, “I think I should go stay with my aunt in Toronto.”
She told him (that) she thought she should go stay with her aunt in Toronto

ought to –>  ought to

Example:
Mother told the children,” You ought to keep your rooms clean.”
Mother told the children (that) they ought to keep their rooms clean.

had better –>  had better

Example:
I said to her, “You’d better not be late for your appointment.”
I said (that) she’d better not be late for her appointment.

used to –>  used to

Example:
He said, “I used to be a fireman in Chicago.”
He said (that) he used to be a fireman in Chicago.

 

Place words often change.  However, if the place hasn’t changed from the direct speech to the reported speech, then don’t change these words:

here –>  there
this –>  that
these –>  those

Examples:
He said, “I’m supposed to meet him here later.”
He told me (that) he was supposed to meet him there later.
(I’m in a different place when I report the speech.)

They said to us, “You can use this room for a meeting.
They said (that) we could use that room for a meeting.
(We’re in a different place when we report the speech.)

He said, “I read these books when I was young.”
He said (that) he had read those books when he was young.
(The person is in a different place when he reports the speech.)

Time words often changeHowever, if the time is still the same at the time of the reporting, then don’t change the time word.

next –>  the following
last –>  the previous / the ____ before
today –> that day
tomorrow –>  the next day / the following day
yesterday –> the previous day / the day before
now –>  then
in ____ –> ____ later
this –>  that

Examples:
She said, “The store is having a sale next Friday.”
She told  us (that) the store was having a sale the following Friday.

I said to him, “I didn’t sleep very well last night.”
I told him (that) I hadn’t slept very well the previous night (the night before.)

He told me, “My girlfriend is leaving for Los Angeles today.”
He told me (that) his girlfriend was leaving for Los Angeles that day.

They told us, “We’re having a game tomorrow at the park.”
They told us (that) they were having a game the next day (the following day) at the park.

He said to him, ”I couldn’t find my bus pass yesterday.”
He told him (that) he couldn’t find his bus pass the previous day (the day before.)

I told her, “You have to come with me now.”
I told her (that) she had to come with me then.

She said, “I‘ll be finished in half an hour.”
She said (that) she would be finished half an hour later.

John said, “I can help you this Saturday.”
John said (that) he could help us that Saturday.

 

In addition to statements, there are other kinds of sentences that you can report.

The imperative (commands) is a little different than statements in reported speech.  The verb becomes an infinitive (with to).  Use told for your reporting verb or asked if there is a “please.”

Examples:
I said to her, “Go pick up the kids.”
I told her to go pick up the kids.

He said to them, “Please take your seats.”
He asked them to take their seats.

We said to the team, “Do your best but most of all have fun.”
We told the team to do their best but most of all to have fun.

The nurse said to us, “Please wait here and someone will be with you shortly.”
The nurse asked us to wait here and (that) someone would be with us shortly.

 

Questions are also different in reported speech.

If it is a yes/no or a choice question, then use if.  Always use the reporting verb asked.  Also, there is no inversion of the subject and verb like in a real question.  Also remember to drop the question mark (?) because it’s no longer a question.

Examples:
He said, “Would you like coffee or tea?”  (Choice)
He asked us if we would like coffee or tea.

My neighbor said, “Could you look after my dog for a week?”  (Yes or no)
My neighbor asked me if I could look after her dog for a week.

He said, “Is it on the top or the bottom shelf?”  (Choice)
He asked if it was on the top or the bottom shelf.

He asked her, “Do you live around here?”  (Yes or no)
He asked her if she lived around here.

Notice that there is no subject-verb inversion (would we or could we) in reported questions.  Always put the subject before the verb in reported speech (we would or we could).

 

If it’s an information question (who, what, where, when, why, how), then repeat the question word.  As above, don’t invert the subject and verb.   Again, drop the question mark.

Examples:
She said, “What time is it?”
She asked me what time it was.

He asked her, “Where can I go for coffee around here?”
He asked her where he could go for coffee around there.

He asked me, “Why are you always so tired?”
He asked me why I was always so tired.

We asked him, “How can we find out if we passed or not?”
We asked him how we could find out if we had passed or not.

 

When reporting invitations, there are 2 ways to do it – the regular way or with an infinitive.  Use the reporting verbs invited or asked.  Once again, drop the question mark.

Examples:
She said to him, “Would you like to go on a picnic with us?”
She asked him if he would like to go on a picnic with them.
She invited him to go on a picnic with them.

He said to her, “Would you please not smoke in my car?”
He asked her if she would not smoke in his car..
He asked her not to smoke in his car.
[Note that the not is before to, not after.]

We said to them, “Would you like to come over for coffee?”
We asked them if they would like to come over for coffee.
We invited them to come over for coffee.

 

When reporting advice, there are 2 ways to do it – the regular way or with the infinitive.  Use the reporting verb told or advised.

Examples:
He said to his daughter, “You should clean up a bit before he arrives.”
He told his daughter (that) she should clean up a bit before he arrived.
He advised his daughter to clean up a bit before he arrived.

She told her boyfriend, “You should call me when you arrive in Calgary.”
She told her boyfriend (that) he should call her when he arrived in Calgary.
She advised her boyfriend to call her when he arrived in Calgary.

The teacher said to the students, “You should check your writing for mistakes.”
The teacher told the students (that) they should check their writing for mistakes.
The teacher advised the students to check their writing for mistakes.

 

When reporting requests, do it the regular way or use the infinitive.  The reporting verb is asked.

Examples:
The coach said to the team, “Could you please be on time tomorrow?”
The coach asked the team if they could be on time the following day.
The coach asked the team to be on time the following day.

The man said to us, “Would you please be quiet so I can hear my cellphone.?”
The man asked us if we would please be quiet so he could hear his cellphone.
The man asked us to please be quiet so he could hear his cellphone

I said to him, “Can you help me move on the weekend?”
I asked him if he could help me move on the weekend.
I asked him to help me move on the weekend.

 

When reporting permission given, do it the regular way or use an infinitive.  The reporting verbs to use are told, invited or gave (someone) permission.

Examples:
I said to Jonathan, “You can stay at my place for awhile.”
I told Jonathan (that) he could stay at my place for awhile.
I invited Jonathan to stay at my place for awhile.

He said to his friend, “You can use my bike this afternoon.”
He told his friend (that) he could use his bike that afternoon.”
He gave his friend permission to use his bike that afternoon.

We told them, “You can stay here until the store closes.”
We told them (that) they could stay until the store closed.
We invited them to stay until the store closed.

 

One last thing.  If the reporting verb is in the present tense (say, tell, ask), or if you’re reporting the speech immediately, then make no verb changes.

Examples:
She said, “What time are we going home?”
She asked what time we are going home.  [Immediate reporting.  No change in time or place.]

His friend always tells him, “You would be rich if you worked harder.”
His friend always tells him (that) he would be rich if he worked harder.  [Reporting verb is present tense.]

They asked us, “Will you help us.”
They asked us if we will help them.  [Immediate reporting.]

 

Let’s review:

Statements:

She said, “The rainbow is beautiful.”
She said (that) the rainbow was beautiful.

Imperative:

He told the class, “Take your seats.”
He told the class to take their seats.

Yes/no or choice question:

John said, “Would you please  stop talking.”
John asked them if they would stop talking.

Information question:

They asked me, “When will the game start?”
They asked me when the game would start.

Reporting invitations, advice, requests and permission:

We told them, “You can stay overnight, but you must leave in the morning.
We told them (that) they could stay overnight but they had to leave in the morning.
We invited them to stay overnight but they had to leave in the morning.

Immediate reporting or when the reporting verb is present tense – no verb tense change:

She asks me all the time, “Are you going for a run?”
She asks me all the time if I‘m going for a run.

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Level 3 idioms – Unit 09

Conversation:

Ron:  Meg, I’m so sorry.  I completely forgot about our lunch date yesterday, but I’ll make it up to you, I promise.  It’s just that I had a really important meeting yesterday morning, and it went so well, we all went for lunch.

Meg:  Tell me what happened, and this had better be good.

Ron:  I’ve had this business deal in the works for three months now, but I didn’t want to say anything and jinx it.  The long and the short of it is that I’m going into partnership with a Chinese firm that wants to sell it’s anti-virus software in North America.

Meg:  Well, it looks like things are looking up for you.  Only once in a blue moon does an internet business like yours take off.

Ron:  I know.  I guess I was in the right place at the right time.  The deal is still up in the air, but when the dust settles, I should have enough money to retire if I want to.

Meg:  Wow.  I’m impressed.  Personally, I would never take the plunge and start a business like you did.  I’m just not cut out for it.

Ron:  I wouldn’t say that.  Everyone makes mistakes at first, while they are learning the ropes.  It’s the ones who stick with it who eventually succeed.  Also, because business people are all in the same boat, it’s a good idea to join a business group and hear how others solve their problems.

Meg:  I know it’s extremely hard to start a business without a hitch, but I think you’re right.  If I want to be financially independent in the long run, I have to start working for myself.

Vocabulary:

had better:  must
deal:  agreement:
jinx:  to give something bad luck:
partnership:  two companies helping each other
firm:  company
anti-virus software:  computer programs that kill viruses.
take off:  become successful
impressed:  thought of in a very good way
cut out for it:  not have the talent or desire
stick with it:   continue doing it
eventually:  slowly
financially independent:  having enough money to not worry

Idioms:

make it up to (someone)        do something good to balance the bad
in the works                             currently being worked on
the long and the short of it    a condensed version
things are looking up              the situation is improving
in a blue moon                         in a very long time
up in the air                              not yet decided or agreed on
when the dust settles              when things have stopped happening
take the plunge                         take action without waiting anymore
learn the ropes                          learn how to do a job
in the same boat                       in the same situation
without a hitch                          without any problems
in the long run                           over a long period of time

Notes:

The long and the short of it has the same meaning as in a nutshell.

Learn the ropes is the opposite of show (someone) the ropes.  Example:  I’ll show her the ropes on her first day.  I hope she’s smart enough to learn the ropes in one day.

Without a hitch is often used after the expression come off or go off, both of which mean to happen. Example: We worked really hard to make sure everything would come off without a hitch.

In the long run is the opposite of in the short run.

When the dust settles can also be after the dust settles.

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