Gerunds and infinitives – the easy rule

When you put two verbs together in a sentence, most of the time the second verb is either an infinitive (to go) or a gerund (going). Which verbs are followed by infinitives and which ones are followed by gerunds is often a difficult thing to learn. Teachers give students lists to memorize and practice, but this is the hard way. An easier way to learn this grammar is to look at a single verb (stop) and apply its rule to all the other verbs. Although this rule is only 80% accurate (true,) it’s better than no rule at all.
Look at this example:
After he had driven for an hour, John stopped to text his girlfriend.
In this example, the action John stopped was driving, not texting. In other words, stopping was the first thing that he did, and texting was the second thing that he did. The order of verbs in the sentence (stopped/ to text) is the same order of verbs in real time (he stopped first; he texted second). When the order of the verbs in the sentence is the same as the order of verbs in real time, then use an infinitive (to text) for the second verb.
Look at this example:
After he started his car, John stopped texting his girlfriend.
In this example, the action John stopped doing was texting. In other words, he was texting first and then he stopped. The order of verbs (stopped / texting) in the sentence is the opposite order in real time (he texted first; he stopped second). When the order of the verbs in the sentence is opposite the order of verbs in real time, then use the gerund (texting) for the second verb.
The verbs remember, forget and regret are just like stop.
Examples:
She remembered to meet him for lunch. (remember is first and to meet is second in real time)
She remembers meeting him last year. (meeting was first and remember was second in real time)
Did you forget to lock the door this morning? (forget is first and to lock is second in real time)
Did you forget locking the door because I know you did? (locking is first and forget is second in real time)
I regret to tell you that you failed the test. (regret is first and to tell is second in real time)
I regret telling you my secret. (tell is first and regret is second in real time)
The verb try is different than the above verbs. If you are trying to do something difficult or impossible, then the infinitive follows. However, if you’re trying different things to find a solution to a problem, then the gerund follows.
Examples:
You should try to finish as soon as possible. (to finish is difficult to do)
If you’re hot, try opening the window, or taking off your sweater. (opening and taking off are possible solutions to being hot)
Now let’s look at other verbs to see how they follow this rule.
Example 1: I want to go to bed early tonight.
First I want, and then I will go. It’s the same order in the sentence (want / go) and in real time (want / go). Therefore, the second verb is an infinitive.
Example 2: She enjoys watching cartoons on Saturday mornings.
She watches first, and then she enjoys the activity of watching. It’s a different order in the sentence (enjoys / watching) and in real time (watching / enjoys). Therefore, the second verb is a gerund.
Example 3: I forgot to brush my hair this morning.
First I forgot, and that’s why I didn’t brush my teeth. It’s the same order in the sentence (forget / brush) and in real time (forget / brush). Therefore, the second verb is an infinitive.
Example 4: He admitted stealing the necklace.
First he stole the necklace, and then he admitted that he had stolen it. It’s a different order in the sentence (admit / steal) and in real time (steal / admit). Therefore, the second verb is a gerund.
This a list of the most common verbs that are followed by infinitives. The ones in [brackets] are exceptions to the rule:
he agrees to make… he deserves to pass… he plans to meet…
[he appears to be… ] he fails to stop… he pretends to be…
he arranges to move… he hesitates to close… he refuses to stop…
he can afford to buy... he hopes to finish… he seems to know…
he cares to give… he learns to make… he struggles to make…
he claims to know… he manages to put… [he swears to have…]
he decides to go… he means to say… he threatens to end…
he demands to know… he offers to help… he waits to open…
he wishes to give…
This is a list of the most common verbs that are followed by gerunds. Again, the ones in [brackets] do NOT follow the rule:
he admits taking… he enjoys walking… he practices doing…
[he anticipates going…] [he feels like singing…] he quits smoking…
he appreciates doing… he finishes painting… he recalls meeting…
[he avoids washing…] [he imagines living in…] [he recommends buying…]
[he can’t help telling…] it’s no use asking… [he resists making…]
he completes making… it’s worth seeing… [he risks losing…]
[he considers asking…] he keeps taking… [he suggests meeting…]
[he delays finishing…] he minds being… he tolerates smoking…
he denies stealing… he mentions doing… he understands needing…
[he discusses going…] he misses visiting…
he dislikes having… [he postpones making…]
Another thing you should know is if you use a person or a personal pronoun such as “me” after the first verb, an infinitive always follows.
he asks me to go… he hires me to wash… he promises me to see…
he begs me to help… he invites me to visit... he reminds me to go…
he convinces me to stay… he instructs me to finish… he tells me to forget…
he dares me to climb… he needs me to know… he wants me to buy…
he expects me to be… he orders me to wait… he warns me to stay…
he forces me to clean… he prepares me to do…
And of course there are a few verbs that are followed by either gerunds or infinitives. It makes no difference.
he begins to play… he continues to stay... he likes to eat
he begins playing he continues staying he likes eating
he can’t stand to wait… he hates to get… he prefers to sit
he can’t stand waiting… he hates getting… he prefers sitting
he loves to beat… he starts to wait
he loves beating… he starts waiting
Use these flashcards to help you study for the following exercises.
Quiz: Gerunds and infinitives - exercise 1
Some items have 2 correct answers. You must click both answers to get it right.
- Question 1 of 20
1.
My brother dislikes ____________ to wait.
That’s right!
Not right. dislike + gerund
- Question 2 of 20
2.
He promised ____________ me as soon as he got home.
Nicely done!
Afraid not. promise + infinitive
- Question 3 of 20
3.
He hates ____________ for anything.
Right!
Incorrect. hate + infinitive or gerund
- Question 4 of 20
4.
My brother doesn’t mind ____________ the dog for a walk.
You’re right!
Not it. doesn’t mind + gerund
- Question 5 of 20
5.
Madeline pretended ____________ asleep when her mother walked in.
Well done!
Sorry. Wrong. pretend + infinitive
- Question 6 of 20
6.
His brother agreed ____________ him study for the final exam.
Right you are!
Not right. agree + infinitive
- Question 7 of 20
7.
It’s not a good idea to start ____________ the night before the test.
Excellent!
Wrong. start + infinitive or gerund
- Question 8 of 20
8.
My boss refuses ____________ me leave early on Friday.
Sweet!
Incorrect. refuse + infinitive
- Question 9 of 20
9.
Why won’t you admit ____________ to me?
Good for you!
Not right. admit + gerund
- Question 10 of 20
10.
Don’t forget ____________ the door before you leave.
That’s it!
No. forget + infinitive because “forget” is before “lock” in time.
- Question 11 of 20
11.
Her brother wishes ____________ a professional football player.
You got it!
Sorry. No. wish + infinitive
- Question 12 of 20
12.
I enjoy ____________ my friends laugh.
You’re right!
Not right. make + gerund
- Question 13 of 20
13.
She decided ____________ with him to buy the tickets.
Yes. Right!
Not it. decide + infinitive
- Question 14 of 20
14.
My professor allows ____________ in the classroom.
Good for you!
That’s wrong. talk + gerund because there’s no indirect object.
- Question 15 of 20
15.
I plan ____________ for Brazil on Saturday.
Well done!
No. plan + infinitive
- Question 16 of 20
16.
We discussed ____________ in together.
Yes. Right!
No. Not right. discuss + gerund
- Question 17 of 20
17.
I would never consider ____________ on my girlfriend.
Correctly done!
I’m afraid not. consider + gerund
- Question 18 of 20
18.
She loves ____________ in the school choir.
Good job!
Sorry. love + gerund and infinitive
- Question 19 of 20
19.
My husband seems ____________ the problem better than I do.
Superb!
Wrong this time. seems + infinitive
- Question 20 of 20
20.
He deserves ____________ a little fun in his life.
Correct!
Incorrect. deserve + infinitive
Your Score:
Your Ranking:
Quiz: Gerunds and infinitives - exercise 2
Some items have 2 correct answers. You must click both answers to get it right.
- Question 1 of 20
1.
He offered ____________ me coffee, but I didn’t have any time..
Excellent!
Wrong answer. offer + infinitive
- Question 2 of 20
2.
After we finished ____________ the kitchen, we all watched TV.
That’s it!
That’s not it. finish + gerund
- Question 3 of 20
3.
Would you please stop ____________ all that noise.
Good job!
No way. stop + gerund because making noise is before stopping
- Question 4 of 20
4.
I promise I’ll continue ____________ the piano.
Awesome!
Mistake. continue + gerund or infinitive
- Question 5 of 20
5.
We hope ____________ to buy a car by the end of the year.
Way to go!
Not this time. hope + infinitive
- Question 6 of 20
6.
He told me he doesn’t feel like ____________ early on Sunday mornings?
Nice!
Not so good. feel like + gerund
- Question 7 of 20
7.
I can’t imagine ____________ around the world for a year.
Well done!
Sorry. Incorrect. imagine + gerund
- Question 8 of 20
8.
They kept ____________ with each other even after the meeting broke up.
Right you are!
I’m afraid not. keep + gerund
- Question 9 of 20
9.
I’m telling you this so you can avoid ____________ money on a bad investment.
You got it!
You missed it. avoid + gerund
- Question 10 of 20
10.
I miss ____________ for walks along the beach in our bare feet.
Great job!
No good. miss + gerund
- Question 11 of 20
11.
She offered ____________ our two cats this weekend.
Good!
Not right. offer + infinitive
- Question 12 of 20
12.
They don’t seem to like ____________ before six o’clock in the evening.
Yes. Correct!
No. Incorrect
- Question 13 of 20
13.
I understand not ____________ the promotion when you think you should have.
Good for you!
Wrong answer. understand + gerund
- Question 14 of 20
14.
We prefer ____________ at home on Friday nights.
Sweet!
Afraid not. prefer + gerund or infinitive
- Question 15 of 20
15.
She quit ____________ him after she found out that he was dishonest.
Nicely done!
Nope. see + gerund
- Question 16 of 20
16.
We demand ____________ to the manager!
Well done!
Not so good. demand + infinitive
- Question 17 of 20
17.
Everyone denied ____________ the money from the cash register.
Wonderful!
Mistake. deny + gerund
- Question 18 of 20
18.
I’m sorry. I didn’t mean ____________ your feelings.
Bravo!
No good. mean + infinitive
- Question 19 of 20
19.
The boy made the dog practice ____________ hands over and over.
Superb!
No way. practice + gerund
- Question 20 of 20
20.
The professor suggested ____________ study groups to prepare for the final exam.
Very good!
Wrong this time. suggest + gerund
Your Score:
Your Ranking:
Use these flashcards to help you study for the following exercises.
Quiz: Gerunds and infinitives - exercise 3
Some items have 2 correct answers. You must click both answers to get it right.
- Question 1 of 20
1.
She expects him ___________ their anniversary every year.
Nice!
Nice try but wrong. expect + someone + infinitive
- Question 2 of 20
2.
His father forces him ____________ his violin every day.
Right!
Wrong. force + someone + infinitive
- Question 3 of 20
3.
He recalls ____________ the President when he was a little boy.
Correct!
Incorrect. recall + gerund
- Question 4 of 20
4.
The students have learned ____________ their hands before asking a question.
Great!
Not right. learn + infinitive
- Question 5 of 20
5.
We waited for an hour ____________ the Faberge exhibition at the museum.
Sweet!
Afraid not. wait + infinitive
- Question 6 of 20
6.
She invited me ____________ for tea this afternoon.
Good!
No good. invite + someone + infinitive
- Question 7 of 20
7.
They recommend ____________ some research before investing in the stock market.
Perfect!
Mistake. recommend + gerund
- Question 8 of 20
8.
Did you remember ____________ the front door when you left?
Terrific!
Not so good. remember + infinitive when remember is the first thing to happen
- Question 9 of 20
9.
They don’t care ____________ their names in the newspaper in connection with this story.
Wonderful!
Erroneous. care + infinitive
- Question 10 of 20
10.
He didn’t appear ____________ nervous at all at the interview.
Superb!
Sorry. Incorrect. appear + infinitive
- Question 11 of 20
11.
She claims ____________ Justin Bieber, but I don’t believe her.
Awesome!
No. Not it. claim + infinitive
- Question 12 of 20
12.
We can’t afford ____________ a house at this time.
Impressive!
Try again. afford + infinitive
- Question 13 of 20
13.
The company president resisted ____________ the question
Nice job!
Wrong, I’m afraid. resist + gerund
- Question 14 of 20
14.
He hired his brother ____________ a deck above the garage.
Good job!
Too bad. hire + someone + infinitive
- Question 15 of 20
15.
You told me ____________ all your cigarettes.
Good for you!
Not good. tell + someone + infinitive
- Question 16 of 20
16.
I managed ____________ the police before I passed out.
Great job!
Sorry. No. manage + infinitive
- Question 17 of 20
17.
He threatened ____________ the boy’s parents about the incident.
Yes. Correct!
No. Incorrect. threaten + infinitive
- Question 18 of 20
18.
Did she mention ____________ more tickets to the concert?
Well done!
Wrong answer. mention + gerund
- Question 19 of 20
19.
The family postponed ____________ the wedding until the Spring.
That’s right!
That’s not right. postpone + gerund
- Question 20 of 20
20.
You can’t convince me ____________ with you about that.
You got it!
You didn’t get it. convince + someone + infinitive
Your Score:
Your Ranking:
Quiz: Gerunds and infinitives - exercise 4
Some items have 2 correct answers. You must click both answers to get it right.
- Question 1 of 20
1.
The teacher doesn’t tolerate ____________ careless mistakes on your essays.
Nicely done!
No way. tolerate + gerund
- Question 2 of 20
2.
He swears ____________ to the police immediately if anything goes wrong.
That’s it!
That’s not it. swear + infinitive
- Question 3 of 20
3.
I failed ____________ the stop sign at the end of the street.
Way to go!
You missed it. notice + infinitive
- Question 4 of 20
4.
He escaped ____________ the dishes three days in a row.
That’s so right!
Not this time. escape + gerund
- Question 5 of 20
5.
My friend reminded me ____________ planning for the party at the end of the month.
Right you are!
Sorry. Wrong. remind + someone + infinitive
- Question 6 of 20
6.
She hesitated ____________ him the truth.
Yes. Right!
No. Not right. hesitate + infinitive
- Question 7 of 20
7.
I appreciate ____________ considered for the job, but I can’t accept
That’s good!
I’m afraid not. appreciate + gerund
- Question 8 of 20
8.
The police ordered everyone ____________ the building immediately.
You’re right!
You’re incorrect. order + someone + infinitive
- Question 9 of 20
9.
He risks ____________ his job if he’s late one more time.
That’s correct!
That’s incorrect. risk + gerund
- Question 10 of 20
10.
It’s no use ____________ about something that may never happen.
Correctly done!
Not very good. it’s no use + gerund
- Question 11 of 20
11.
We asked them ____________ the noise down so we could study.
That’s so right!
Not quite right. ask + someone + infinitive
- Question 12 of 20
12.
She anticipates ____________ a successful business by the end of this year
Splendid!
Nope. anticipate + gerund
- Question 13 of 20
13.
It’s worth ____________ the process to become a citizen.
Excellent!
Wrong this time. it’s worth + gerund
- Question 14 of 20
14.
He tried ____________ the window, but it was stuck.
Very good!
Not right. try + infinitive when the activities are difficult to do
- Question 15 of 20
15.
We arranged ____________ the following day for lunch.
Bravo!
Sorry. Incorrect. arrange + infinitive
- Question 16 of 20
16.
She struggled ____________ his name.
Awesome!
No good. struggle + infinitive
- Question 17 of 20
17.
He begged her ____________ him return home.
Nicely done!
Afraid not. beg + someone + infinitive
- Question 18 of 20
18.
She can’t help ____________ secrets on to her friends.
Good for you!
No way. can’t help + gerund
- Question 19 of 20
19.
He delayed ____________ to universities until late May.
You got it!
You missed it. delay + gerund
- Question 20 of 20
20.
I finally completed ____________ the form.
Well done!
Not this time. complete + gerund
Your Score:
Your Ranking:
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